Bigger Than Your Shadow By: Marnie Grace A. Picson

In this world where perfection and beauty are what most people crave for, there are times that we tend to judge those who are not pleasant looking, poor, dull, lacks confidence, and fat.  Well I want to tackle on this last adjective which is being fat/obese. The rest I feel like I got an ounce of good looks, I am rich but let me clarify with the  love and support from my family and friends. Being fat, I can relate to this and I am certain that a million of people who exist in this so called Hungry for Beauty and Body World, are also having concerns with the shape of their bodies. Yes I do understand that going on a healthy diet and exercise can lower down your cholesterol level and make you feel more active and will add years in to your life. I am a self confessed exercise and diet hater. Surely, I know a miracle is what I'll need to change my mindset. Currently I want to focus in sharing my point of view which I am certain will help fat ladies like me. Okay the reality is we are fat/obese. We are called guards of the kitchen. We can reduce our fats with diet and exercise but if you don't feel like doing it at the present do not force yourself or you'll end up not enjoying your day. Aside from health purposes some fat ladies would want to go on diet because it will add up to their self esteem, if they can minimize their cholesterol count then they will feel lighter and better but remember even if you are as thin as a stick, but still you don't accept your flaws which makes you imperfect but human, well you cannot be truly joyful. Fat ladies let us celebrate our lives and of how we squeeze in just to fit in our jeans. Still have that confidence and warm smile, these will cover up our fats!

Celebrate You! Celebrate Life! Do not allow those extra kilos to be a hindrance of  achieving your joy. Reach for your dreams and goals in this short and rented life. If these people around you knows you well, more than being a big girl then they will love your big heart. Do not feel like you only have your family and friends to escort you in the red carpet of life. Reach out to those people who treat you right. Bring your own sunshine and dress for your comfort. If a guy truly loves you, He will accept your uniqueness, your flaws for that what makes you beautiful. If no one is intended by God for you then learn to pick up more dandelions. Blow it for a wish. Pray hard and just count your blessings. Your heart and beautiful soul must be bigger than your shadow.

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